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Flu hits home

Update the school has four cases of flu, the test for H1N1 is being processed. They don’t know enough information of how long it will take to hear the results if it is H1N1. They are passing out masks today on campus. I purposely did not type the campus name for fear of it being wrong. I pray for the school, they are between a rock and a hardplace. It is up to the CDC and the federal govt for positive news.

Also History comes to Texas Again Here is the LINK TO FLU OF 1918

Dunk my baby grown over 6 feet tall is at college. He called me late last night. For our phone to ring after 10 PM it can only be one of the kids or Hubby. Dunk was trying to explain what happened, but Hubby was watching his DVR of 24 at an unGodly loud level. I couldn’t hear him.

Suddenly I heard garbled words, but it was still unclear. Finally he calmed down, 24 was on mute and I heard the words Swine Flu. Dunk is in a dorm where two cases have just been confirmed. His dorm TV gets very few stations, no new stations at all. He had heard something about it, but nothing in real detail. I walked him through what I knew, it is deadly and you cannot think it is nothing if you don’t feel well. I listened to see if he was listening to me.

What my readers may or may not know is my Great Grandfather died of the flu of 1918. The history of how bad it was, how bleak it was if you were ill is impressed on my mind. I have heard the story from my mom a million times, he was too sick, too weak the medicine did not come in time. He was one of many but he was a civil war survivor that fought for everything he owned. Dallas was hard hit by the flu of 1918.

Right now as I write this I only know what Dunk knows. There are three confirmed cases maybe four, two are in his dorm but not on the same floor. The campus website has old news, it states no confirmed cases. They say there are plans to prevent an outbreak, but no details are listed.

This last few weeks, I have been missing Dunk so much. I feel complete when all three are at home. I had bought Dunk groceries for his dorm room, he is out of the meal plan. Last time he bought too many so this time he went cheap thinking he had plenty of food. He has enough food for two weeks if he needs it. For selfish reasons I would love classes canceled, and I could go get him. I want to be able to check on him, monitor him and know he is okay or not. He may be over six feet but he is still only eighteen. After all he would watch Green Acres or The Beverly Hillbillies instead of the news any day.

I wish I knew more of the plans. It is truly frustrating the students were not informed until after 10 PM. I pray for all the students, who knows how many have already been exposed in classes and in the dorms. Dunk right now is wanting classes to be canceled, as he says, he has no idea who is infected and who else may have it.

I am looking back on this post as totally confusing, it is clear I am writing from shear emotion and fear of the unknown. I wish I could gather my thoughts to make sense of it.

What I do know is the moment I heard Mexico had an outbreak, I wanted the border closed. Being a native Texan the border even closed is not fully closed but at least the flood of infected people would stop for a bit. While this is not my political blog I refuse to change who I am, illegal immigration has cost Texans dearly before the flu. I watched BBC America news just to see if they had done any expose on the flu, lo and behold they showed the border crossing with three hour lines and nobody wearing masks. This is the problem people policing themselves cannot be trusted, remember the man with resistant TB? He flew all over the world with no care in the world for anyone else.

Today I miss my son, I will drive the three hour drive and back to bring him to safety. I pray he is well.

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Freshmen Orientation we Go!

Tomorrow first thing we head out, matter of fact as you read this we will be at college orientation. It is a three-hour trip and we have to be there at 8 AM oh my kind of day! Not!

As far as Dunk and I know, we will do everything tomorrow but write the big check, or make the loan agreement whatever you wish to believe. His schedule will be done, he will know his roommate we will see the dorm finally, we have seen other dorms but not that one. We will eat lunch him with the freshmen and me with the parents. He will get his college ID and I think his email, his food plan is already active as far as I can. I guess what I am saying is it is happening. My little toe headed boy is almost gone. Gosh I miss him already. I miss just talking to him for more than a minute. It has been such a long time since we were able to do that.

Soon he will quit working, he has a freshman camp he will go to and that will be it. Pack up and move off. The last couple of years he has been getting ready to go, I know this because we have fought more than ever before. Dunk was not the kid that ever crossed me verbally. He would sneak at ways to tick me off. I know from reading the books it is the stage he had to go through to say “I am a Man, hear me Roar.” I know it mentally but I still don’t like it. Having so many friends dying early I don’t ever want to think my last words to him were mean or unnatural. It is the thing I often think about, you want your kids to know regardless what happens you love them at the bottom of your being, people keep telling me he knows but I am still unsure.

I am sure Dunk will sleep on the way there and he will drive back home while I rest. I know we will enjoy it, the college is really a nice small quiet place. There is concern who the roommate is, but that will be okay I told Dunk so. When you are settled if you have a real problem, you request a switch. My college roommate and I started out thick as thieves before school, we knew each other well and thought it be great. Then she met the love of her life, she never lived with me much after that. I had a private room without paying for it. Knowing the person doesn’t always work either, so either way Dunk will deal with it.

I wonder what the parents will be like tomorrow. Being a parent is always a bit like being a kid, will the cool parents give me the time of day? I have decided to dress in pants, not jeans. Just a feeling I get, it would be nice not to be the blue jeans mom. Pretending for one day will be fun!

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College Scholarships

This is the first part of two in a series.

Since my last year has been consumed with the dance and jig of trying to get the scholarships done I have learned a few things that may help someone else. College applications, financial aid, scholarships and acceptance have changed dramatically since I went to college.

The very first thing you must do is apply to a college. With that, please know that most of the application fees are non-refundable. In Texas, everything is online; I would imagine most of the other states are as well. Texas has Texas Grants, so when you go through ApplyTexas.org it is a twofer meaning you apply and Texas has the information for your possible grants if you are eligible.

The next step is FAFSA. It is without exception the beginning and end to your questions. FASFA gives, calculates and collates all of your financial aid. The application there is not easy, please don’t make me lie. However, what you need to focus on is each year all you will have to do is update from there on out. The link for FAFSA is fasfa.gov. All of these act the same way they help even a student that doesn’t expect financial aid. Most of the scholarships expect you to apply for FAFSA some require it. The site has many tips to complete the forms, but the main thing is to remember to save often! That goes with all the applications. Saving makes it much easier when you have an unexpected shutdown. You will need everyone’s Tax forms, and that may include a divorced spouse’s tax forms. With FAFSA the student will have the actual application and pin number. The parent will have a password and user name as well, this is to allow the parent to virtually sign the forms.

Tomorrow we will talk about how to get the most scholarships and what system works best to achieve your goals.

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